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When a man wants to commit but for some reason he cannot
seem to make the move, it might not mean he is unserious. It might mean he has
a chronic case of commitment issues. So before you start worrying your pretty
head about how unserious you think he is and start interpreting his reluctance
as the unwillingness to commit, try and study the situation first and see what
the problem is exactly....
If he shows you how much he loves you but cannot seem to
say the three words that matter then it might mean he has serious commitment
problems. When a man loves you, you are likely to find out with the way he acts
around you in public and in private. When the words always seem stuck in his
throat however, it might mean he is scared of what is coming next- commitment.
If he talks about his best friends and family but for
some reason will never take you to see them, it means he is scared of seeing
you bond with them and vice versa. He knows what would be expected of him next
is commitment and because it is scaring him so much at the moment, he would
stall for as much as he can.
If he seems to do the first two things listed and he
cannot seem to be able to ask you out, then it might mean he has a strong
commitment issue. Now this does not mean he is not feeling the exact same way
you are feeling, it only means he cannot take the big step the way you can.
People with commitment issues usually end up that way
because of being scarred in a past relationship or because of how they grew up.
It is not their fault and so don’t go about calling him a dousche bag- at least
not yet.
Let him know where you are emotionally and where
you want to go next in the relationship. Listen to whatever he says and let him
know he can be hundred percent honest with you. If he cannot afford to
commit right now, do not force it. You will hate yourself if you do. Give
him time, things would always work themselves outCulled
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