This
is a very interesting article. I didn’t want to enjoy it alone, so I decided to
share it with you. It was my friend who told me some years back that every woman
is beautiful; because, according to her, beauty is relative…Cough! She also taught
me that beauty is of the mind… I simply agreed with her because I had nothing
to counter her. Lol!
In
this article, the writer presented to us seven very important things; every (beautiful)
damsel should know…it’s not just about beauty; other things are involved. Find it
below
Ladies,
you’ve done everything that was expected of you. You have made it through
college and your career is on track. You even managed to save some money, pay
down those student loans and make a few investments.
But, you still feel like something is
missing. Is it you? Do you feel like you have some how gotten lost in the fray?
Well, now’s the time to get IT back! You know,
that little you that’s been
lying dormant for so long, that sassy you that’s been
squelched by overwhelming work schedules, meetings and unending obligations.
Get back that special sassiness you remember so well before life set in.
We all have a sassy little sista inside us and she is dying to get out. Wake
her up and let her run rampant in your world for a while and you both will have
some fun! But, don’t forget to give her the ground rules, lest she go buck
wild!
1. Self-esteem is critical. Hold
yourself in high regard. Know that you are worthy. Love yourself, flaws and all
because many times that which we see as flaws others see as our uniqueness. All that encompasses you makes you beautiful. You are a
queen!
2. Educate yourself. I know, I know,
been there done that. But, we have a tendency to get so caught up in work that
we don’t always keep up with what’s going on in the world around us. Take the
time to see a play, read a classic or take a class. Then, when you meet someone
new, you will actually have something interesting to contribute to the
conversation (besides work!).
3. Communicate effectively. What you
say and the manner in which you say it speaks volumes. Refrain from using
profanity, because there is nothing sassy about that!
4. Indulge and beautify. Treat yourself
to a day at the spa. Go for a classic hairstyle that is easy to maintain. Get a
manicure and a pedicure. And, if you are really feeling wicked, try a European body wrap and detoxify your body. You
will love it! One of my personal favorites, make an appointment for a MAC
make-over. While you’re there, ask the artist to teach you a few techniques
that you can use to achieve the same results.
5. Foundations. Enough can not be said
about the importance of quality foundation garments. No woman’s arsenal would
be complete without an authentic corset. I am not talking about those flimsy
bustiers (they call them corsets but they’re not) that your lingerie department
offers. I am referring to quality authentic corsets, hands down one of the best
investments a woman can make in herself.
If you need your spirits (and your self
image) lifted, just put one on and you will wonder how you ever lived without
one. An authentic corset will instantly make you appear thinner by nipping in
your waist, flattening your stomach and accentuating all your curves from bust
to buttocks. Authentic corsets are the most sensual items of clothing a woman
can wear, not only are they functional but they are also beautiful whether worn
underneath as a foundation or as part of your clothing ensemble. In the words
of a fashion maven, the perfect hourglass figure is made not born.
6. Classic attire. Building a classic
wardrobe is essential for the sassy sista. Classic pieces don’t have to cost a
small fortune but they do need to be of high quality. By selectively purchasing
clothing made with clean lines, high quality fabric, durable stitching and hand
sewn lining, not only will you find that your clothing fits better but they
will also last longer saving your money.
The seventh and final rule is time and attitude.
Stop for a moment to enjoy your little sista, Sassy! Keep a positive attitude, because
a zeal for life can be contagious and I can’t think of better thing to catch!Culled
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