Last week, I read something on a blog via
twitter, somebody compiled some reasons why men cheat, and I must say I found
some of them very hilarious. I am going to try and include some of those
reasons in this post and then give few reasons of my own why I think men would
cheat on their wives or on their girlfriends.
But first, let us understand one thing, and I
am in no way trying to justify cheating or excuse men who cheat on their women.
But the fact is, the likelihood of cheating increases under certain conditions,
and in most cases, infidelity on the part of a man results from a COMBINATION
of things. Those things could be from his actions/inactions, his partner’s
actions, and/or issues that his partner is going through.
Now, here are five reasons of my own, why I
think men cheat and would cheat non-stop...
·
He Knows His Woman Will Put Up:
A lot of men who cheat serially do so mainly
because of this reason, most women who know their partner cheats on them will
look the other way – as long as the partner is discreet about it, and keep his
infidelity low key. Men who are rich and well to do get away with cheating most
times than men who are not, they know their woman won’t do anything about it,
as she could believe that when a guy is rich and influential, he is not for
just one woman. So these types of men will always feel they are entitled to
cheat because they are rich, famous and maybe good-looking.
·
He Is A Sex Addict:
Some men are addicted to sex, and this is no
joke. This reason might probably be the only one on this list that can halfway
be excused because sex addiction is a medical condition in which the cheater
really can’t help himself unless he gets a professional help. I know a man who
will start shaking uncontrollably once he sees a woman; he simply wants to have
sex and he will stop at nothing until he does. This kind of person might need
medical treatment to stop cheating.
·
He Wants To Belong:
If a man spends a lot of time in the company
of people who cheat, he is likely to start cheating and continue to do so. When
his colleagues, or close friends that he constantly hangs out with are cheating
on their mates, he might find himself succumbing pressure and cheats to be part
of the crowd. And if he doesn’t discard this group of friends who cheat on
their wives/girlfriends, he is likely to continue cheating.
·
He’s Got Poor Role Models:
If a man grew up under a father, uncle, or other male role models who
repeatedly cheated and got away with it – especially if the women in his role
models lives tolerated it, he may be subconsciously programmed to follow their
example, considering infidelity to be the norm. except if his own woman stands
up against it.
·
He Doesn’t Believe In Monogamy:
As crude as it may sound, a lot of men still
don’t believe in monogamous relationship, and I’m not talking about the ones
permitted by their religion/faith. Some guys simply believe they can’t marry
two women at a time but they can’t still retain their manhood for just one
woman for the rest of their lives. They always prioritize the need to explore
and have someone or two on the side.
Now, you can add your own reason(s) why you
think men cheat.

I dont believe this: MEN cheat for every reason? Check ur self writer
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