A very interesting article written by Sex
Instructor and PUNCH Columnist Funmi Akingbade… Who agrees with her?
Find it after the cut…(21+ only)
Quite a number of our readers have been
asking me if sex during menstrual cycle should actually be a total no go area;
arguing that most of them are either short menstrual cycled, or their cycles
are so unpredictable or they have been diagnosed to only ovulate during cycle.
Sex during menstruation has been seen as a
taboo based on religious and social grounds but there are some good sides to
it. Having sex on a period is almost never as messy as many think safe for a
spot or two on the sheets.
During a period, involuntary muscle spasms along the
uterine walls cause blood to flow out over a few days; but when a lady orgasms
during sex, the orgasm creates stronger muscle spasms that push the blood out
faster within a day or two. If you’ve noticed this already, you should
understand that your blood hasn’t vanished or gone back inside your body. It’s
just come out quicker than normal. Ladies with longer days of bleeding usually
love this.
Besides, it allows reduction of cramping
pain.
Period cramps or premenstrual tension put a lady’s body under a lot of
stress, leading to more pain but when she has sex during her period, a good
orgasm releases a lot of ‘feel good’ hormones into her body and make her feel
better instantly.
Some ladies actually feel sexually attracted to their
husbands and they are particularly highly aroused at this time. They feel so
horny during their periods especially on the first day of the period or just
before it starts.
This is because of all the hormonal changes that the body
experiences during the release. This is actually the main reason why many
researchers encourage sex during the menstrual cycle. The more sexy and erotic
a woman is during her period helps her to get pregnant during that time.
If you’ve been interested in the idea, here
are a few tips to make the whole game a lot easier and sexier. Place a soft
cloth under your butt to avoid staining the bed. Keep tissues nearby,
especially during orgasm when he will ejaculate and release all the sperms into
you.
You already have a fluid waiting to come out, adding his load to it makes
you have considerable amount of fluids in your vaginal that’s waiting to come
out as soon as you move or lift up your back. The tissue will help you to cover
your wet spot and sit up after sex.
If you’re on your period, don’t engage in
woman on top position. Instead, lie on your back and just enjoy the ride while
your man does all the work; missionary is a safe position. The most important
of it all is that the man will fully ejaculate into you. Since this is one of
the reasons many are advocating for such, this may be the couple’s dream come
true. Men love ejaculating deeply into their wives, nothing satisfies a man
during sex more than fully downloading without reservation.
As soon as the man
ejaculates, kindly bear it in mind that sperm stays alive for up to 72 hours.
So for many ladies that may be ovulating during this period, you may likely get
impregnated.
But note that if you experience heavy flows,
avoid having sex during the first 2 days. It’s easier to have sex after your
heaviest days. Some foreplay like fingering or sucking the clitoris may be
avoided unless he does not mind blood stained hands and mouth. During this
period, most ladies are already well lubricated and wet, so your husbands may
not really need to use their fingers or spend too much time with their hands
around your clitoris or vulva to make you wet.
Just tell them to stick in their
penis in slowly into your vagina and you’ll be able to smoothen it through.
Oral sex during this period is not practicable.
Now you may wonder how to handle the sanitary
pads if you are flowing heavily? All you need do is make sure your sanitary pad
securely and safely sticks to the base of your panty. Then, pull the panties
and the pad to one side and give your husband some space to penetrate you from
one side.
This may even be another form of creativity for your sexual
relationship and the man may like how tight it feels around his penis. It’ll also
reduce any outflow or squirts when he takes his penis out.
But bear in mind that sexually transmitted
diseases travel better in blood than in sexual fluid. If you are HIV positive,
this will not be okay for you. Besides this, the wall of the vagina at this
particular time is usually sore, tender and soft; so there might be
possibilities of the woman being infected during thrusting in and out and the
penis accidentally slipping off to touch some other part of the pelvic area or
the bed spread. This action may allow access to ascending infection.
When these
types of infection are not treated on time and adequately, it may lead to
pelvic inflammatory disease.
Source: PUNCH
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