A very interesting write-up I
culled from PUNCH; which tries to address some difficulties females undergo in
our society and find it hard to open up due to the nature and character of the
Nigerian society.
I will advise all, especially
the ladies to read it till the end. So inspiring and encouraging!
Find
it after the cut….
Dear Nigerians, I’m most delighted to be in touch
with you again. You’d recall I discussed one of the tips of maintaining
chastity last weekend and so would continue with that today. However, I got a
particular text message which touched my heart as it aptly describes the
situation of so many girls out there. And I tell you, a lot of them never get
to tell anyone because of the fear of causing a family feud and also
endangering their lives. And this just further convinces me that a lot of girls
never meant to be wayward. Some just got rebellious due to lack of love,
harshness and betrayal of trust by those meant to look after them while some
other girls crave for warmth in the hands of boys/men who just take advantage
of their vulnerability. But I’m so glad that the spirit behind the tip,
Acquaint yourself with God, transformed the lives of a good number of girls.
Dear Aunty Temi,
I was raped by my uncle- my dad’s brother when I
was a little girl but my parents don’t know till today because I didn’t tell
them. I grew up having compulsory sex with him every day. It stopped when I got
to J.S.S. 2 but since then I have always been having sex with different guys
but I desperately want to stop now!
I need your encouragement. I always promise God not
to do it again but I keep doing it. Most guys I meet only want to have sex with
me but they’ll promise me heaven and earth and I’ll succumb to their pressures.
I end up being used and dumped. I’m fed up aunty because it has only caused me
pain and confusion over and over again, such that I don’t even think I’m my
real self.
I despise my uncle and men and I don’t have any
stable relationship anymore because I now get easily irritated by men. But I
love Jesus and it pains me that I hurt him. I want to change aunty Temi and
make Jesus happy. I love your article and I’m really blessed by it as it has
affected my whole being. Thank you. I love you. God bless you.
Fehintola, 24
To all the Fehintolas out there who were defiled
and whose lives are utterly perverted, I want you to know that no matter how
disgusted you feel about yourselves, you could still turn out the priceless gem
you were created to be. Or you don’t think so? No matter your terrible past,
reputation and the derogatory names you’ve been labelled, you can re-write the
story of your life. It’s all up to you. All you need is some mental renovation
so you can write a beautiful script of what you deserve from life and fight for
it with all your might. We’ll get to that soon.
My sweeties, no one owes us happiness and the
fantastic life we deserve, we owe ourselves the very best of life and we must
work towards it. Now I see so many girls that life has been cruel to, pushing
them around black pits of despair, suddenly come out shining like the sun out
of a clear azure sky!
The Girls Club of Nigeria is aimed at influencing a
positive change in the female folk. While we cannot turn back the hands of time
in the lives of girls who have followed the ruinous path, we are committed to
encouraging them to change their ways and recover their glorious virtues and at
the same time do all we can to paralyse the spirit behind this madness of the
flesh. If this generation can make amends, the next generation will come out
clean. Don’t you think so? I love you all and I think you are all wonderful
sisters!
Dear girls,
As designed by God, your virginity is the bedrock
of your destiny. It is your spiritual beauty. It carries the star, potential
and talent which God created with you to make you unique. It is the star in
your sky. Please don’t pollute your destiny. The world is waiting for your star
to shine! Your curiosity about sex and the way your body feels is normal.
However, there’s so much you need to know which may eventually condition your
mind and calm your desires. For now, DON’T dabble into it please.
To
be continued.
Credit: PUNCH
May God save his children...
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