Lol! I have been reading relationship articles of late, and I
have decided not to gain the knowledge alone, after all what are friends for…Lol!
So if you wouldn’t mind, I will be sharing more and more dating tips here. In this
write-up Tomilola introduced to us the various ways to find out if you are
dating a trust worthy guy or not.
Find it below….
Relationships can be really hard sometimes, let’s face
it. But we all pray that we go through the down times with someone worth it,
someone we love and that loves us, someone who is genuine and someone who is
trustworthy.
What is the point of being with someone who deep down
doesn’t give a shit about our emotions or who would put a dagger through our
backs the moment we turn away?
If all the answers to the questions listed below are yes,
then it might be time to give him that much deserved quit notice.
Does he lie?
My female cousin recently got off a relationship with a
long term boyfriend and when we got talking, she told me that as much as he was
such a sweet looking boy on the outside with manners that rivaled that of the
royal family, he could lie and make Lucifer jealous.
Isn’t that just grand? He could probably lie and get an
Olympic medal for it.
A man that lies is not trustworthy. If he lies even when
unnecessary then this type of man is an accident waiting to happen, you need to
leave him be.
Is his character shady?
When he is saying the truth you can’t tell it’s a hundred
percent truth. When he discusses something with you, you know deep down
something isn’t right. With this person you cannot really say what’s going on.
He is black today and is white tomorrow and the day after, he is all shades of
grey.
You don’t know what his office looks like because he wont
tell you where exactly it is in Ikeja and you don’t know the address to his
house because ever since you met, he has used every trick in and out of
the book to keep you away.
Someone who you don’t trust anything he says isn’t a
keeper. In Frank Donga’s voice “if he is dilly dallying and does not know where
he is going, leave him alone”.
Is he a cheater?
I know of guys who their girlfriends cannot dare to trust
with any female, not even a female dog. Some guys just have wandering eyes and
straying hands. It is simply impossible for them to keep their hands off the
cookie jar.
If the answer to this is yes then you know what it is.
Is he disrespectful?
I saw this Yoruba movie once (actually this happens all
the damn time in Yoruba movies), where this guy gave his wife’s mom the biggest
insult of her life and I wonder if this happens in reality.
Just in case it does and your man is the type who insults
people close to you (or not) without thinking twice, then you should know he is
not the type you keep for long.
Does he keep secrets?
Does he know everything there is to know about you and
you know scarce nothing about him? Is he like a ghost? Like if he disappears
today you would have known nothing whatsoever about him? Does he ensure all the
questions you ask him are never replied and then gets defensive when you probe
further?
A man who isn’t open to you when you are open to him
isn’t worth it. Except you are down with a man who loves to keep secrets.
A man that isn’t trustworthy isn’t the type you keep. If
he is a keeper then he would be honest, trustworthy and open to you. Anything
other than that and he has to leave.
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