…Now, every of my female friends
are going to read this! lol...
I got this very interesting
article on-line today, and I decided to share it here, so that my female
readers will read and gain knowledge.
Ermmm.., personally, I doubt if
some men would be stopped from cheating on their women even after applying all
these measures and more…Lol! Some guys, are highly promiscuous..lol! One woman
can never be enough, even two, three or four are not sufficient…Lol! Just like
flies, they 'patch' on everything ‘patchable’. The best thing for them is just
prayers, prayers and prayers!!! Lol! But, men why…?
Read the article as you continue…
Keeping a man faithful is not as
difficult as it may appear at first. For starters, most of them want to be true
to their spouses, but for that extra boost to ensure fidelity, try these steps.
Respect
him as you would want him to respect you
Remind him from time to time why
he's your man. In other words, take the time to make him feel special as if
he's the only one in your life. Tell him how handsome he is every now and then.
Validate
your man on a daily basis.
Whether he works outside of the
house, is currently unemployed or a stay-at-home Dad, (if you're married) your man
still needs to feel like a man. You know he is, make sure he knows it as well.
Appreciate
all the things he does for you.
It doesn't matter whether those
things are big or small, they are worth, at the least, a thank you.
Spice
things up every once in a while.
Tell him your fantasies, listen
to his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance.
Live,
Love and Laugh. Laugh often with him, not at him.
Tell him a joke that you think he
might like or clip out comics from the newspaper and place them on the fridge,
send text or e-mail messages.
Listen
first, and then talk.
Let him finish what he has to say
before you interrupt. Ask questions if you're not sure about what he said. Do
not go with the general notion; all women are nags. Make a difference. Listen
more, talk less.
Be
his biggest supporter!
Men don't like to admit it, but
they need reassurances as well. Showing him that you support him and are there
with him through day to day struggles will help to ensure that he doesn't have
a need for someone else to fill that need.
Don't
lose your own self respect.
Stop blaming him for everything
and understand that some things are beyond your or his control.
Feed
him.
Men love when a woman cooks for
them like mum does. You don't have to cook exactly like her but, it's the
action that counts. Women claim men are dogs but remember if you feed a dog he
will never leave home!!!
Hold
and Cuddle your man, his day can be just as bad as your day.
Remember they are big kids and
when they got upset when they were younger, mums held them close.
When
leaving him alone make sure he has everything needed.
Remember you are already dressed
and ready to go and he is capable of getting those things. It also shows you
care about his needs or wants as well.
Don't
ever baby him.
He will pull away from you. He
needs to feel like he's the provider. If you're married, take the family budget
to give him what he likes. It's the effort that counts.
Work
on yourself.
Learn to appear neat and
appealing to tour man at all times. Take your time to get those kinky and sexy
undies, night wears and dressing that will make him want you more.
Remember, if a man has all he
needs in a woman, he will never go looking for another. Be everything your man
wants.
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