I got this particular article
from Lailasblog, she is the only one that knows where she got it…Lol! So don’t come
here and accuse me of not giving honour to whom honour is due…lol! Just kidding
sha.
The article is an attempt to
educate ladies on how best to stop their men from cheating on them. I pray one
day, the writer will still enlighten us on how to stop these ‘Ukwus’ from
cheating on men too. I don’t like this one-sided advise, but you can still read
though….
Keeping a man faithful is not as
difficult as it may appear at first. For starters, most of them want to be true
to their spouses, but for that extra boost to ensure fidelity, try these steps.
Respect him as you would want him
to respect you
Remind him from time to time why
he's your man. In other words, take the time to make him feel special as if
he's the only one in your life. Tell him how handsome he is every now and then.
Validate your man on a daily
basis. Whether he works outside of the house, is currently unemployed or a stay-at-home
Dad, (if you're married) your man still needs to feel like a man. You know he
is, make sure he knows it as well.
Appreciate all the things he does
for you. It doesn't matter whether those things are big or small, they are
worth, at the least, a thank you.
Spice things up every once in a
while. Tell him your fantasies, listen to his. Don't be afraid to initiate
romance.
Live, Love and Laugh. Laugh often
with him, not at him. Tell him a joke that you think he might like or clip out
comics from the newspaper and place them on the fridge, send text or e-mail
messages.
Listen first, and then talk. Let
him finish what he has to say before you interrupt. Ask questions if you're not
sure about what he said. Do not go with the general notion; all women are nags.
Make a difference. Listen more, talk less.
Be his biggest supporter! Men
don't like to admit it, but they need reassurances as well. Showing him that
you support him and are there with him through day to day struggles will help
to ensure that he doesn't have a need for someone else to fill that need.
Don't lose your own self respect.
Stop blaming him for everything and understand that some things are beyond your
or his control.
Feed him. Men love when a woman
cooks for them like mum does. You don't have to cook exactly like her but, it's
the action that counts. Women claim men are dogs but remember if you feed a dog
he will never leave home!!!
Hold and Cuddle your man, his day
can be just as bad as your day. Remember they are big kids and when they got
upset when they were younger, mums held them close.
When leaving him alone make sure
he has everything needed. Remember you are already dressed and ready to go and
he is capable of getting those things. It also shows you care about his needs
or wants as well.
Don't ever baby him. He will pull
away from you. He needs to feel like he's the provider. If you're married, take
the family budget to give him what he likes. It's the effort that counts.
Work on yourself. Learn to appear
neat and appealing to tour man at all times. Take your time to get those kinky
and sexy undies, night wears and dressing that will make him want you more.
Remember, if a man has all
he needs in a woman, he will never go looking for another. Be everything your
man wants.Source: Laila
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