If the man you are
dating falls into the 35-60 years bracket, you may have cause to be VERY
CONCERNED because, majority of them are not well financially at all; yet it
does not stop them from cheating and telling loads of lies.
When you are
introduced to one and you are meeting him for the first time:
·
Check out his shoes. If they are very
dusty, it means he had to trek a long distance to meet you. There’s nothing
wrong in trekking but in this case, it might be an indication that he is not
financially independent.
·
Please remember, we are talking about
men who are between 35-60 years. If you are meeting him for the first time,
check his dressing. If he is wearing new clothes but his singlet is dirty or
white turned brown with dirty handkerchief, he just may be a dirty person.
·
If he tells you that he is trying to
start a new business and how finance has been difficult (remember, he is between
35-60), be careful. He may be expecting you to bring some money to fund it.
A man in that age
group/stage, should already be established in something. If he is not, please PROBE
further. Be careful. Such men tell lots of stories.
·
If he has no job at that age, you have
no business meeting him. He needs a job not a relationship.
·
If he still staying in his father’s
house at that age, please be careful. I am aware that such is no problem in
some tribes (with their sons not even leaving the house to find his own life).
But, be careful. That
man may be psychologically and emotionally crippled. You may be dating a man
who is 40 years old but is emotionally 13 years old. That will only bring more
confusion into your life. Relationships can be wonderful but not when you are
in the wrong one. If you have to date men between 35-60 years and you feel
something isn’t right, please investigate!
Remember, we can help
you investigate the man or woman in your life if you are uncomfortable about a
few things concerning him or her.
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