One of my readers Doro
Jane, sent me this very interesting article, according to her, there
are situations and conditions when getting back with getting back with your
ex-boy/girl friend is the best idea. Enjoy the article below….
Maybe we wish there
was one, but there is no giant book that governs the way that we should act in
a serious relationship. We’ve all been there: when things go sour and a breakup
happens, it feels like your world is crumbling. With time you heal, you move
forward, you meet other people. The harsh reality? Getting over an
ex isn’t easy. And sometimes, you don’t have to.
Getting back together
with an ex has all sorts of nasty stipulations. So many questions pop up. If it
didn’t work out before, why will this particular case be any different?
Why
not? The reality? Not all relationships end because one person
deliberately hurt the other. Not all relationship end in tears
Thus, we present you
with 4 times getting back together with an Ex is a good idea.
1.
The old issues are gone:
Certain
problems like anger problem and issue that carry on from youth, aren’t easy to
overcome. However, if something like a problem at the office was putting
intense pressure on your relationship and that is now a non-issue, this could
allow you both to refocus on the important stuff, that is, the both of you.
2.
You’ve forgiven him:
Maybe
he cheated. Maybe he moved on too quickly after you broke up. Maybe he just didn’t
give you the kind of attention you deserved because he wasn’t OK with the kind
of person he was. If you can find it in your heart to TRULY move on, then try
again. If not, there is just no point at all.
3.
You feel a void for their
specific companionship:
When
you’re in an intimate relationship, it’s easy to consider that person your best
friend for that period of time. When that person leaves your life, it’s easy to
feel something missing. The catch? When you try to fill that spot with someone
else and it’s not the same. There’s a high price to be put on being on the same
mental level as someone else.
4.
You truly could see yourself
marrying him
Since
the two of you have parted ways, you’ve compared every single man to this one
guy. Not just their things like profession or their likes or dislikes—but your
potential future involving him. At the end of the day, if you really think this
man could be the one, then you owe it to yourself to go for round 2. Lol!
What’s your take on this
write up? Do you have a similar write up, you can send it to me on campuswatchmagz@gmail.com Let’s get
your opinion first….
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