From
a female T.G Blog Reader
‘’Please, I need your advice on
an issue .There's this guy that I have been friends with for about 4 years now,
he's been a good friend and a confidant to the extent that he goes out of his
way to do things for me with no strings attached. Although, my girl friends
always tells me that the guy is in love with me and has always been interested
in me.
So in December of last year; I
decided to ask him why he's doing all he does for me - he expressed his
feelings, said that he didn't want to say it since because he is not
financially stable.
He is a cab driver now and trying
to raise money to travel abroad for greener pastures. I have fallen for the guy
too because he seems the kind of man I wish to get married to-we connect so
well and he seems to understands me. Although, I cannot vouch for his true
character (as he doesn’t have money now-you remember this saying ‘’it is
difficult to know a man’s true character when he doesn’t have money’’?).
I just want the parliament to
tell me if there is a future for me with this man because I am very confused
right now…he has no formal education, job or even the money to settle down now.
I am 30 years old, I am considering my age here. If he travels abroad, I do not
know how long it will take him to find his feet.
Although, I am well traveled and
can easily visit him wherever he resides. I just don’t know how it will all
turn out if I decide to get involved and I do not want to be a stumbling block
to his dreams either.
I would have tried convincing him
to stay back and establish himself here but he doesn’t seem business inclined.
I am afraid to let go because I have had numerous heartbreaks and
disappointments from men and I am scared of facing such again. Please talk to
me. He is 34 years old. We are both from the South East and we reside in Abuja.
I am employed’
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