Should a Woman be Judged by Her Looks? Written By: Ruth Dulac

I culled this particular write-up from one of the reputable on-line news portal this evening. The lady that wrote the stuff RUTH DULAC, did her best to deviate from the normal understanding we have about looks and perception.

Guess, she is trying to advise us not to judge a book by the cover? Anyway, let me not get her wrong, read it and interpret the write-up accordingly.

Ruth wrote...

As cliché as this may sound, it’s true because at some point or another, we are all guilty of judging something or someone based on appearances alone. Despite the fact that this isn’t right, we still seem to have that tendency to be superficial. Women love to be appreciated for who they are, not what they look like especially women who have great physical beauty. They don’t necessarily want to be judged on that feature alone.

Roger that!

A woman may decide to have a child and definitely, there would be lots of body changes. The fact that her body has to accommodate a growing baby is startling and the knowledge that her figure may never be the same is equally frightening.

The society has made women terribly self-conscious and eventually we all get older and less youthful in appearance. A few wrinkles on a man are no big deal, but for women the first sign of a wrinkle is cause to consider Botox treatment, or more. It’s always good to bear in mind that when considering relating with a woman always do that based on what you truly believe is important in a woman. If looks are top on your list it will surely lead to a very dissatisfying experience for you, and your woman.

You do not have to resolve to try and be happy with someone who is unattractive; I’m not trying to say that. Women all have preferences in looks, personality and many other traits that men also have to abide by; it’s a matter of compatibility. But what we generally have to reflect on is that attraction is not just a matter of physical appearance. So take the time to find out who she is before you appraise a woman based on what you can see.

From the length of her skirt to the tightness of their jeans, from the depth of her cleavage to the height of her heels and the colour of her lipstick, every woman should be allowed to wear what they are comfortable with without being scared of someone analysing their life story just from their appearance. Looking good is a good business like I’ve heard so many say so, let’s keep it at that.

Finally, women are not objects that should be judged. The word judge made me just remember a bible verse “who made thee a judge over my people”. She can decide to wear a peruvian weave or not wear, she can make her hair into bantu-knots or not, she may want to wear a garb or a skinny jeans…she is more than what she wears.