ROMANCE!!! I WANT TO LEAVE MY BOYFRIEND! (18+)

Danm it! Jerome Onipede nailed it!

In this week’s edition of “Get Captivated”, a weekly relationship and marriage column in Vanguard Allure, anchored by marriage and relationship expert Mr. JEROME Onipede; a lady who was in a relationship mess wrote a short letter to the expert and the reply he gave is worth trekking for…Lol!

Read it after the cut…

Lady wrote:

I have this problem with my boyfriend. I am afraid, he doesn’t call me and when I try to, he won’t pick or give me a flimsy excuses. It’s not as if he gives me anything. Do you think I should leave him?

Jerome Onipede replied:

My dear Lady, I think you are making the same mistake most ladies are making today which is: She believes she is in a relationship with a guy, and the guy doesn’t believe he is in a relationship with her.

From your statement “it’s not as if he gives me anything”, it seems you have given him your body through sex, and secretly expects that the least he can do, is to take care of you. If that is the case, you need to know that these days, guys see ladies as CHEAP and READILY Available, and they know that sex is no longer an essential commodity, but an exercise our ladies today even beg for so they can just have the presence of a man in their lives. But even then, I am not surprised, because IT IS WRITTEN that “Because they refuse to acknowledge God, He gave them up to a DEPRAVED MIND to do the things that are not convenient”.

Now tell me my dear, how convenient is it to break up with someone who was never dating you, because from the little you have indicated here, he was never committed to you in anyway, but was just sleeping with you like guys just have a lot of free sex with babes these days. Please accept my deepest sympathy.